Taking advantage of MOPA’s free admission every second Tuesday of the month, Elenita and I took the trolley down to Balboa Park. Though its emphasis surely is not photographic, MOPA’s current exhibition — Circle of Memory — is a powerful experience to anyone who has ever dealt with the death of a loved one or contemplated life’s brevity.
Compared to other countries and cultures, Americans tend to mourn the loss of family members and friends very privately. We have war memorials, but even those often celebrate heroism and patriotism much more than offering a public space to express grieving and closure.
Circle of Memory takes the initiative to offer that public space. The exhibit is interactive, allowing you to read about other San Diegans who have passed away as well as leave your own note about the loss of a loved one if you’d like. Be prepared to see some visitors sniffling and crying. We saw complete strangers talking about what were obviously still-painful memories. Make sure to enter the inside of the monument and allow yourself some time to reflect. You’re sure to leave the exhibit reminded of the preciousness of human life.
Obviously this exhibition isn’t for everyone, but for those of you who have been, I’m curious to hear your thoughts. Should San Diego’s museums pursue more interactive exhibits like this or should they stick to the more traditional?
Bernice Zerger said on Wednesday, August 29, 2007, 1:58
My daughter, Sarah, died four years ago at the age of 27. There isn’t a day that goes by that I don’t think of her and miss her.
In the Fall of 2003, a few months after Sarah died, my other daughter, Christina, and I visited the Circle of Memory exhibit here in Oakland, California. It was such a moving, powerful experience for us.
I wish there were more interactive exhibits such as this. It was truly special!
Sincerely,
Bernice Zerger